Friday, July 17, 2009

So why the blog name?

...Just in case some are wondering. I think it speaks for itself. It's only life. Things happen, and that's a fact. You stay up all night writing a paper, and just when you're about to turn it in, your computer crashes and deletes the whole thing. You experience a death in the family. An issue spins out of control and breaks the bonds of friendship. You try so hard to please everyone and be the best you can be, but nothing just seems to be good enough, and you feel like a failure. You're in such a rush to get to where you need to be that you forget something important or you get into an accident. Someone very close to your heart moves far away. No matter what you do, there just doesn't seem to be enough money to pay the bills, the mortgage, or to put food on the table. The person you fully thought you were going to spend the rest of your life with turns their back on you and walks away. Heartaches, tears, annoyances, and frustrations of life...

To me, the title is a reminder that no matter what goes on, and no matter what sort of predicament you're in, hey, chill out, it's only life... It's part of the package, both the good and the bad. I guess you can see those times as the challenges and circumstances that build a person's character. Everyone has their days! And most of the time, there's a lesson to be learned, so go, find it, and move on! The tangible life on this world we see now is nothing compared to the life we were meant to live, after this life is over and done. So when times like these come (and believe me, I know they will), don't hesitate to vent your frustrations, cry, write, release your emotions, break some water balloons, or whatever you choose to do. But after all that is said and done, always remember to breathe, clear your mind, and relax. It's all good... this too shall pass. It's only life!

6 comments:

  1. hehehe this is your first comment!!
    haha i want to read ur post but their sooo long. ill read it though... sometime or later.

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  2. "only Life" suggests to me that the dark and unpleasant experiences are being minimized both in impact and in value...I think it is important to not rush through the dark times, nor rush anyone else through them either.

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  3. While that IS true, and it may be perceived that way also, I guess the point I was trying to make was more that there's something bigger and better than life, in a spiritual sense, and with that in mind, gather the strength and perseverance to press onward regardless of what life throws your way.

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  4. P.S. Thanks Jerah! :) I know, they're pretty long. I started this blog more so I can have somewhere to post my thoughts, and if people read it, that's great. It's okay though, I won't get offended if no one does though, or if they don't like it.

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  5. I guess I'm thinking at this point in life (and of course we can agree to disagree) that the most spiritual thing to do is to focus on living life itself with all its ups and downs...but I do understand that the Christian religion kinda encourages looking for the pie in the sky...that is where I seriously disagree...as a temple of the Holy Spirit God can't really be any closer than God is...so whatever happens in life is part of the spiritual process...the eternal now perhaps?

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  6. "Everything I have learned about life can be summed up in three words: It goes on."

    - Robert Frost

    I like the name of your blog, babycuz!

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